Looking for "Helpers

noobie.swingers · #1 05-04-2010, 06:29 PM

The long road ...

My wife was (and still is) rather conservative. Especially with sex. Things were pretty straight laced until it all started with a male masseuse whose fingers strayed around and made her wet. From there, there was a gradual shift in preference for porn that featured 3somes. Then we started asking each other leading questions about "would you like to be in that guy/girl's position". Testing the waters with each other.

Eventually we would ask each other outright questions like, "Would you like to to fuck that girl?" As I took the step to admit that I would like to fuck that hot chick on the screen, she would grudgingly admit that she would like to be with a stranger. One of my wife's most explosive orgasms to date have been when I kept teasing her, refusing to let her come or put my cock into her until she begged me to "let the other guy fuck her".

All these happened over the space of many years, interrupted by real life, kids, etc. Recently, she became open enough to actually plan for a 3some or 4some if we travelled to some place like Bangkok where there was a guarantee of anonymity. But it has been a year and I am despairing ... we have yet to manage to travel anywhere without the kids.

So I'm gonna ask for discrete Samsters to put their hands up. I will pass the applications to her and see how she reacts.

I cannot promise that anything will happen, she may baulk and you will have sent in your info for nothing. I will also request that, if it happens, no detailed FRs be posted unless she allows it.

Who are we?
Married couple.
Male late-30s, above average height. Slim athletic build. above average looks. average Asian dick.
Female late-30s, average height. Slightly out of shape as to be expected from being a mother of 2. average looks. A-cup.
Yes, I know we're nothing to shout about ...

What are we looking for?

Based on what I know she's open to ...

Scenario 1 - FFM
She wants to see a girl suck me until CIM.
She wants to see me go down on the other girl.
She may or may not want me to fuck her.

I want to see someone go down on my wife. My wife is 100% okay with this.
My wife may or may not allow the other girl to fondle her breast.
My wife most probably won't french the other girl.

My wife wants to "inspect" another girl's pussy. Sorry it sounds so un-sensual, but she's curious.
My wife may or may-not go down on you. I think she's 50-50 on this.
I do know that making you moan will turn her on, so I'm quite sure she will try to please you.

This is really more for her to satisfy her curiosity. It's almost as if we're looking for a teacher to guide her into this.

Scenario 2 - MMF
I want to see another guy go down on her. She's 100% okay with that.
I want to see another guy fuck her. She may or may not allow it, depending on how horny she gets. I'd call it 50-50
She's most probably not going to be willing to blow the guy ... sorry. It's a very slim chance. Took many years before she went down on me.
She's most probably not going to be willing to french the guy.

If it happens, she'll most probably suck my cock as you fuck her.
If it happens, it will most probably be quite scripted. Sorry but you may end up feeling used.

Scenario 3 - FMFM
Soft Swing 100% definite. May or may-not progress to hard swing. Can't guarantee.

She wants to watch another couple go at it.
It may or may not progress to permutations of Scenario 1 or 2.

I'd guess that Scenario 1 (FFM) or 3 (Swing) is most acceptable to my wife. Scenario 2 (MMF) will more likely happen as a result of a soft swing or on the second time we try a 3-some.

As such, I'm quite sure that couples will more likely be chosen over singles. And I think we'd quite willing to, not to mention be more open to, driving up to people in KL or some such. As long as it can be a day trip.

So there it is ... all applications will be passed to my wife. Please feel free to include as much or as little info as you please. Pictures or not is really up to what you are comfortable with. But you do know the more info you provide, the easier it is for her to choose

email to [email protected]

Yes I do know we're asking for a lot and Oh yes, please be patient.

naturegreen · #2 06-04-2010, 02:03 PM

Sounds like your wife is bi-curious but not bi-sexual as yet. Up your thread.

naturegreen · #3 07-04-2010, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by naturegreen

Sounds like your wife is bi-curious but not bi-sexual as yet. Up your thread.

Strange enough, I have been getting zaps recently for harmless posts under Orgies/Swinging arrangements. I up people's thread also tio zap? Whatever is wrong? Weather too hot? Please lah, give a more valid reason. Up people's thread = act smart? Then means many people in here acting smart liao. Or the zapper is the stupid one?

Looking for "Helpers 07-04-2010 08:12 AM down your post. Do not act smart